E-PASS IT ON!® 2004

The On-Line Journal of The Children's Music Network

Reader Responses

Our readers respond to Barb Tilsen's editorial "What Can Music Give"


As a full-time children's musician (I teach in schools, teach piano privately, and present children's music and movement programs), I find myself constantly asking myself if I'm doing enough in this crazy world that has so many problems and needs so much. How am I helping when all I'm doing is singing and teaching music all day long?

Of course, I think back to my own childhood in the 1960s. I grew up hearing Pete Seeger sing wonderful old folk songs. My parents would take me out of school to go to anti-war demonstrations, and singing peace songs with a whole group of people made me know that we can change the world. But what stays strongest in my heart and mind is my fourth grade teacher, who brought in her guitar and sang with us every day – "Old Stewball," "Follow the Drinking Gourd," "Blowing in the Wind," Jamaica Farewell." That was the year my already dysfunctional family totally fell apart, and boy, did that music help. So I knew the power of music. When my own children were born and had terrible colic and various neurological differences, music got us through. We made up songs for everything, because my son couldn't talk until he was three, but he could sing from the time he was eight months old.

Sometimes I wonder if music created an illusion that isn't really true–can we really change the world, or was that just some hypnotic effect that isn't real–and am I just passing on a false hope to a new generation? No, I refuse to believe that. As my brother was getting on a bus from Boston to Washington, D.C., in 1970 for another anti-war demonstration, my father's parting words were, "If things are feeling tough, sing, and everyone will sing with you." That is always my experience with children. Even the gang members in an inner-city park join in when there's a good rhythm going, and I believe that plants a seed of hope, of difference, that something else can happen beyond what is seen in the news. I think we have a responsibility to keep that hope alive, especially as singing is less and less a common thing to do. 

Joanie Calem


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